A lot of guys don’t know how to tell if a girl is interested in them.
They also don’t know how if a girl is interested in them or if she sees you as a friend.
When I was starting out I didn’t know if a girl was interested either but once I got experience I know very quickly if a girl is interested in me or not.
When you start talking to girls you will start to see patterns in how they respond to you.
In this article I will list how to tell if a girl is interested in you, how to tell if she just sees you as a friend and how to tell if she is not interested in you.
These lists are not a strict rule, which means if a girl is not showing you all the signs she is interested doesn’t mean she’s not, or vice versa if she’s showing you not interested signs doesn’t mean she’s not interested but most of the time the list will show you the truth.
SIGNS A GIRL IS INTERESTED IN YOU
She approaches you and starts a conversation
She locks eye contact with you
She gets eye contact with you and smiles
She subconsciously puts herself in your space, for example let’s say you are standing at a party and she Is sort of lurking around you within a meter or so
She faces you, her body is facing you
She tilts her head and faces the side of her neck at you
She touches her hair as you are talking to her
She plays with her glass, straw, or something else as you are talking to her
She fidgets/adjust her clothes as you are talking to her
She has her legs crossed towards you not away from you (her inside of thighs are facing you not the outside)
Her pupils dilate
She maintains strong eye contact
She licks her lips/nibbles her lips
She applies lip gloss
She is laughing, smiling, giggling
She is leaning towards you, close to you, into you
She is standing very close to you
She touches you, playfully hits you, pinches you, hugs you
She tries to make the conversation flow very well
She asks questions
She gives good detailed answers
She sounds energetic, interested, enthusiastic
She ask a lot about you, she seems very interested in you
She asks personal questions
She asks about you and other girls
She invites you out
She introduces you to her friends
She tries to kiss you
She says you smell good
She is very relaxed and in a good mood with you
She’s very happy with you
She wants to make you happy
She laughs at your shitty jokes
She starts conversation with you on tinder/bumble
She replies to messages fast
She answers your messages and asks you questions
She re initiate’s conversation if you go quiet
She uses lots of emoticons and looks like she’s interested by the way she messages you, uses xx, xo
She asks you out
She’s easy to make plans/dates with
She fits you into her schedule
She wants to see you
She says she misses you
She enjoys sex with you or makes it look like she does
She doesn’t put you down in the bedroom
She doesn’t put you down in a serious way
She asks you “what are we” “are you seeing anyone else”
She talks about sex, sexually
She flirts with you
She teases you
She invites you over
SIGNS ARE GIRL JUST SEE’S YOU AS A FRIEND
She asks you for opinion on guys
She says you’re her friend “you’re a really good friend” “you’re one of my best friends”
She treats you like a friend
Doesn’t flirt with you
Doesn’t touch you
Doesn’t talk sexually to you
Asks you to do her favours
Asks you to help her with lots of things
Always wants to go out for lunch dates, brunch dates, dinners, movies but never come over or lets you go to her place
Pulls away when you try to escalate on her by trying to hug, touch, and kiss her
Talks to other guys in front of you, flirts with them, gets their numbers/social media in front of you
Doesn’t care if you talk to girls in front of her, doesn’t get jealous
Is too comfortable around you, wears no makeup, is gross, isn’t trying to be attractive to you
Will talk to you heaps on social media but when you ask her to hang out she goes quiet
Gets screened out very quickly when you try to move things forward with her (asking her out)
Tells you “let’s just be friends” when you tell her you like her
She only talks to you when she wants advice, help or to tell you how she’s feeling
She gets a boyfriend and still talks to you and wants to hang out with you and want her boyfriend to meet you
She tells her boyfriend you’re her gay friend
She complains about her past and present relationships to you
She introduces you as a friend
SIGNS A GIRL IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU
You approach her and say something to you and she completely ignores you
You’re trying to open her and she doesn’t even look at you
You approach her and she immediately turns her back to you
You try to open her and she replies “why” “I don’t know you” “who are you” “I don’t think I should give you my name”
She immediately says “I have a boyfriend”
You approach her and she looks like she’s shocked, irritated, disgusted, scared, bored, mad
You approach her and she starts getting social anxiety looking around the room as if someone will see her next to you
You approach her and she says go away or pushes you away
She doesn’t answer any of your questions
She answers your questions in blunt one line answers
She doesn’t ask you any questions
You tell her about yourself and she goes “okkkkkk” “wowwww” “interestinggg”
She rolls her eyes at you
She doesn’t reply to you at all when you message her
She insults you
She disrespects you
She flakes on plans
She says she’s busy
She takes ages to reply to messages
She doesn’t try to reschedule
She seemed interested but when you ask her out on a date she goes silent
She agrees to a date but when you reconfirm she doesn’t reply
She says yes lets catch up but when you ask for her number (usually on tinder) she doesn’t reply
She agrees to a date but when you try to make a place and time she goes silent
She keeps reinforcing that your just friends
She avoids touching
She doesn’t introduce you to her friends, family
She avoids you
She never initiates meet ups with you
HOW TO DEAL WITH THE 3 TYPES OF GIRLS
Ok guys that’s a good list to get you guys to understand where you are with the girl that you’re dealing with, now this is what to do with each of the 3 types of girls.
Remember what I told you about yes, no and maybe girls?
The first list, the girls who are interested are the yes girls, congratulations! You should continue forward with these girls and escalate into kissing, sex, relationships etc.
The second group would fall under the maybe category of girls, what you do if you are getting friend zoned is try to move things forward and escalate on her to show her that you like her more than a friend.
Try to flirt with her, touch her, talk a little bit sexual, tease her, be cocky funny, ask her on a date, make moves on her.
She will either go along with it and you won’t be in the friend zone anymore or she will be screened out and you won’t be wasting your time with her anymore.
The last group, the not interested girls are just that, not interested, they are the no girls!
Don’t worry about these girls, a lot of them are toxic or just after something else, have boyfriends or for some reason OTHER THAN YOU don’t want to engage with you.
Don’t take it personally; rejection is part of the game, for every no girl you encounter you’re getting closer to the yes girl.
There you have it guys, hope that helps, shoot me a comment below If you need any more help.