Today I have a quick but power tip for you guys.
APPROACH HER STRAIGHT AWAY
Back when I was starting out I use to read up on the pickup artist community and they talked about something called the “3 second rule” Mystery invented this.
What is the 3 second rule?
Well what this means is when you see a girl you like, it could be anywhere, the mall, the park, in a coffee shop, at a bar or club, at the beach, you approach her within 3 seconds of seeing her!
The reason you approach girls you like within 3 seconds is you don’t give yourself a chance to talk yourself out of it.
If you wait, you will certainly talk yourself out of it and be overwhelmed with fear of rejection.
The more time you wait, the more you will contemplate.
Also, the more time you wait the more chance she could leave and the opportunity will be lost.
I think the 3 second rule is a very good idea however just one thing to keep in mind, within that 3 seconds, try to establish if she has a boyfriend, is with some dodgy looking characters, has a wedding ring on or something else that could turn into a negative situation.
But besides that you’re clear and should approach her within 3 seconds!
If you start doing this you’ll be surprised how confident you will be and the approaches will make you even more confident!
The 3 second rule will get shit done! It’s like when you can’t be bothered going to the gym, if you think about it you will talk yourself out of it but if you just get ready and go without thinking about it you will go and finish the workout and feel good and accomplished after.
Ok guys, so remember, next time you see a girl you like, approach her straight away!
Good luck guys!